Why Can’t I Connect With My Partner?
Written by Rob Ryals on January 18, 2010 – 10:34 PM -
Ever feel like you are not truly connected with your partner? It’s not surprising if you’ve ever felt this way because most relationships have this problem at one time or another. You don’t feel you are connecting, communication drops off and ton of insecurity starts flooding your brain. It really sucks when this happens because you know you truly care about your partner but you just don’t know how to bridge that gap. It’s really attributed to a skill that necessary for both of you to have in order to connect in ways that fosters everlasting love. This skill is called “Heart Felt Understanding and Putting Your Partner First”. Some people have different levels of natural mastery of this skill and hence different levels of success with this. Have you ever seen one of those couples that you are truly really envious of because they are so in love? When I refer to those types of couples I am not referring Read more »

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Do You REALLY Want A Normal Relationship? Think Again Casanova…
Written by Rob Ryals on January 18, 2010 – 4:37 PM -
Truly, what is a normal relationship? The word relationship in itself is so loaded with meaning, emotion, opinion, fear, heartbreak and joy how do you even begin defining what is normal when it comes to relationships? So what do we deem as a normal relationship? After all everyone I talk to says “I wish I could just find someone to have a normal relationship with”. I have found myself saying that as well, putting up many walls, barriers to entry for people and so much pressure in some cases that it just chokes some awesome candidates right out of the picture.
Your way of dealing with relationships actually starts at childhood from the family life you were brought up in. So I did some research to see how many people in the United States Read more »
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It’s Killing Healthy Relationships Don’t Be A Victim!
Written by Rob Ryals on January 18, 2010 – 4:22 PM -
Is technology a means to an end to healthy relationships? I remember when I was younger and I just started talking to girls, I use to get so nervousness. I don’t feel that entirely goes away especially when you like someone a lot, but it gets a lot easier. I use to get so nervous that I would write down talking points on a piece of paper in preparation for those exciting but yet scary phone calls when I was speaking to my first love. I did this so I wouldn’t freeze up and get that dreaded awkward silence on the call. As I got older I didn’t need those talking points any more but that sense of nervousness still existed. Now lets fast forward to 2010. In 2010 we don’t even have to talk verbally on the phone we can do it all via the handy dandy little feature on cell phones called text messaging. It allows you to think about what you are going to initially say, think about your replies and do this while you are in the middle of five other things. This also takes away all that nervousness that you get with your first Read more »

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Famous Failures
Written by Rob Ryals on December 6, 2009 – 10:28 PM -In order to succeed you have to fail. Failure is the one element that truly does fuel success. It’s how we learn and how we grow. Without it we would never be able to improve upon our skills and ways of thinking. If you look at some of the most successful people in the world they have all had many failures that built them to a point that they obtained a great amount of success in life.
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The Power Under The Mask
Written by Rob Ryals on October 24, 2009 – 3:50 PM -
What am I? Who am I? What are people thinking? There isn’t a day that goes by that most of us aren’t trying to figure out who we are and what our purpose in life is. Always striving to be more, striving to fit in but yet striving to stand out and be unique. After all the so called greatest creation of all is life but yet there is no instruction manual, there is no inherit instinct that allows us to fully realize what we are here for? Or is there an inherent instinct? We rely on what we observe and guidance that other people give us and just pray that the wacko’s aren’t at the front door passing out the guidance. Just when you think you have it figured out “WAMMO” life Read more »

Tags: future, inner, Life, mask, past, purpose, sense
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Mental Death
Written by Rob Ryals on October 23, 2009 – 6:19 PM -
Everyone you talk to will ultimately give you different advice on what a successful relationship is all about, what it consists of and how to make it work. After many years of troubled relationships and being places for the wrong reasons I realize there is only one place you can find the answers to your relationship and life problems and that is within yourself. So the journey of self realization begins. My goal of this blog is to hopefully help Read more »

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Happiness In A Relationship – The Six Human Needs
Written by Rob Ryals on October 23, 2009 – 5:59 PM -
No one ever said life was easy, regardless of financial well being, social status, or level of belief in religion. We all have things that happen daily that impact us and more importantly impact the one’s we love and care about the most. As daily issues arrive, many times the thing that gets impacted the most is your relationship with your significant other. These situational issues can put pressure on you and your partner which sometimes can lead to doubt and uncertainty as to whether your partner is there for you, whether they understand you, or if they even care at all.
There are a number of things that can help you prepare and get through these types of issues. The main thing is communication early and often. By nature we all have the Read more »
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Unconditional Love, Who Doesn’t Want It…
Written by Rob Ryals on October 23, 2009 – 5:42 PM -
We all love a good movie when there is a happily ever after ending involved don’t we? But what about our own life’s? Where is my happily ever after ending you may ask? If you are seeking your happily ever after it comes down to several things but one of the main things is unconditional love. Developing the ability between two people to love one another no matter what without any conditions.
Listen, I love to sometimes go camping, but I would never pitch my tent in the middle of a mine field. So the question I pose here is why would you want to enter into a relationship with someone with a lot of conditions. A relationship that you our your partner always has one finger on the self destruct button and one foot hanging out the escape hatch ready to bail? I will love you as long as you do this, this and this but not if you do this, this and this. What this is, is a relationship in Read more »
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Stalkers, Stalkers Every Where…
Written by Rob Ryals on October 23, 2009 – 5:35 PM -
When I was growing up there was one horror movie that really scared me, it was the old black and white version of the “Night Of The Living Dead”. It was about these creepy zombie like creatures which were created from a cloud of chemical fall out. For those that haven’t seen the movie, I would suggest checking it out as it’s a pretty good classic flick. In this movie no matter how much you would run these creatures were right there in your face, reaching, grabbing and wanting to suck your brains right out of your skull. Creepy right? You may be saying to yourself “Rob, where are you going with this?” Great question, the topic of this conversation is Read more »

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The Zombies Are Coming To Get You!
Written by Rob Ryals on October 23, 2009 – 5:00 PM -
Zombies to the left of me, zombies to the right of me, zombies all around me. I bet the first thing that came to mind with that opening was a cheesy old zombie movie where they were coming to eat all of the humanoids brains. But I am not talking about the zombies that come to eat your brains, I am talking about the every day zombies that come and drain your brain, your heart and your spirit. If I weren’t being so dramatic, I could of probably just had said economy Read more »

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