You may say yes, you know exactly what your partner really needs to feel loved, but do you? Many times we make the mistake of thinking our partner is exactly like us. We assume that they want and need the same things as we do in order to feel loved. This assumption, when wrong, often leads to the feelings of disappointment and frustration that comes from feeling that you give your partner everything and get nothing in return. You may in fact be giving them everything in this case; it’s just not what they need in order to feel loved and truly able to respond to your efforts.

We all feel love in many different ways. While one person feels love through Read the rest of this entry »

Ever feel like you are not truly connected with your partner? It’s not surprising if you’ve ever felt this way because most relationships have this problem at one time or another.  You don’t feel you are connecting, communication drops off and ton of insecurity starts flooding your brain. It really sucks when this happens because you know you truly care about your partner but you just don’t know how to bridge that gap.  It’s really attributed to a skill that necessary for both of you to have in order to connect in ways that fosters everlasting love. This skill is called “Heart Felt Understanding and Putting Your Partner First”.  Some people have different levels of natural mastery of this skill and hence different levels of success with this. Have you ever seen one of those couples that you are truly really envious of because they are so in love?  When I refer to those types of couples I am not referring Read the rest of this entry »

Truly, what is a normal relationship? The word relationship in itself is so loaded with meaning, emotion, opinion, fear, heartbreak and joy how do you even begin defining what is normal when it comes to relationships? So what do we deem as a normal relationship? After all everyone I talk to says “I wish I could just find someone to have a normal relationship with”. I have found myself saying that as well, putting up many walls, barriers to entry for people and so much pressure in some cases that it just chokes some awesome candidates right out of the picture.

Your way of dealing with relationships actually starts at childhood from the family life you were brought up in. So I did some research to see how many people in the United States Read the rest of this entry »

No one ever said life was easy, regardless of financial well being, social status, or level of belief in religion. We all have things that happen daily that impact us and more importantly impact the one’s we love and care about the most. As daily issues arrive, many times the thing that gets impacted the most is your relationship with your significant other. These situational issues can put pressure on you and your partner which sometimes can lead to doubt and uncertainty as to whether your partner is there for you, whether they understand you, or if they even care at all.

There are a number of things that can help you prepare and get through these types of issues. The main thing is communication early and often. By nature we all have the Read the rest of this entry »

There’s something to be said for slow and steady progress…   And there’s something to be said for strong, decisive, sweeping action. When it comes to bad, self-defeating habits, there’s no time like today to drop ‘em like they’re hot.  I’ve been more aware lately of the annoying conversational habits of other people.  Worse than that, I’ve then been noticing myself repeating those things.  Cutting out these nasty habits make it simpler to get to the heart of communication, so why not start today? Read the rest of this entry »

I can’t speak for everyone, but in my limited experience, relationships don’t have to be hard.  One of the best ways to nurture a relationship is to let your partner know that you love and appreciate him or her.  And even better than Read the rest of this entry »

For years its seems that women had to do most of the work when it came to contraceptive methods. Well, for all the women out there you will be glad to hear that it may not be all up to you anymore. Of course, nothing beats condoms from the perspective of protecting yourself at all levels, but this may be an eventual alternative for you when you are in a monogamous relationship.

A contraceptive pill for men might one day be possible following the discovery of a genetic fault that leads to male infertility, scientists said.

The faulty gene affects the movement of sperm and means they cannot penetrate the membrane of an egg in order to fertilise it.

Scientists hope that by studying the way the gene works they might be able to overcome infertility in some men as well as design a drug that causes a reversible change in the ability of the sperm to fertilise an egg.

They’re sometimes subtle, but to the initiated man, these changes in physiology are signs of what she’s thinking and feeling.

Pupils
If she’s feeling stimulated by you (not just sexually), her pupils will dilate. that’s because her body is programmed to want to see more of whatever’s exciting her, so her brain tells her irises to let in more light. Bonus: As the inkiness spreads, she’ll start looking better to you, too. Research shows that men rate women with larger pupils as more attractive. time to make your move.

Eyelashes

Hold her gaze for a minute. If she’s blinking more than Read the rest of this entry »

WORK

1. Are you working on your chosen field?

2. How many hours a week do you work?

3. What does your job entail? (For example, do you often travel for business, work at home, performs dangerous tasks?)

4. What is your dream job?

5. Have you ever been called a workaholic?

6. What is your retirement plan? What do you plan to do when you stop working?

7. Have you ever been fired?

8. Have you ever quit a job suddenly? Have you changed jobs a lot?

9. Do you consider your work a career or just a job? Read the rest of this entry »